July 4, 2025

Since most Christians know of the characteristics of the virtuous woman of Proverbs 31, I will cover the portion that explains how to be a good king. The scripture tells us that it was written by Lemuel, which most believe is a term of endearment used for Solomon by his mother, Bathsheba. The leaders of today would do well to listen to the good recommendations of this portion of scripture.

1. Don’t spend all your strength chasing after women.
2. Don’t drink too much alcohol, it will pervert your judgment.
3. Advocate for those who cannot speak for themselves.
4. When you are asked to judge, be fair, especially with those in need.

We know that Solomon didn’t listen to everything his mother said because he was drawn to women and surrounded himself with them. They so overtook him that their tendency to follow idols ultimately destroyed Solomon because he turned his heart away from God to follow after the gods his wives served. I’m sure by the end of his life, he regretted not listening to her sound advice. If you have a virtuous mother, you would do well to listen to her as long as her heart is on God and she does her best to follow the scriptures. 

Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings. It is not for kings, O Lemuel, it is not for kings to drink wine; nor for princes strong drink: Lest they drink, and forget the law, and pervert the judgment of any of the afflicted. Proverbs 31:3-5