The Parables Of Jesus: 16
The Unforgiving Servant
In this parable, Jesus mentions a servant who owed his master a lot of money, but the servant wasn't able to pay that debt. So the master threatened to sell him and his family to pay off his debt, but the servant begged for mercy, and the master felt bad for him and forgave his debt. However, a fellow servant owed him a debt he couldn't repay, and when he begged for mercy, he showed no compassion and threw him into prison. When the master found out what he had done, he required his prior debt to be paid and threw him in prison.
Then his lord, after that he had called him, said unto him, O thou wicked servant, I forgave thee all that debt, because thou desiredst me: Shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellowservant, even as I had pity on thee? Matthew 18:32-33
When we sin, to whom do we owe a debt? If we borrow from the devil, don't we owe him the debt since he is the master of most sin? God, being the one who created Satan, allows him to collect on that debt. It is a frightening thing to be at the mercy of the enemy; we subject ourselves to his punishment when we don't pay our debt. However, when we don't forgive the debt of others, we are at the mercy of God. It's more frightening to be at the mercy of God than of Satan. Both are tragic, but if you are unforgiving, God will withhold his forgiveness from you. Something I just noticed, which we all need to pay attention to, is that the master withdrew his forgiveness because of the servant's unforgiveness of the other servant and made him pay the full price for his own debt. Look at the following verses and shudder:
And his lord was wroth, and delivered him to the tormentors, till he should pay all that was due unto him. So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses. Matthew 18:34-35
If you don't forgive, God will revoke His forgiveness. Does that mean we lose our salvation or that we will pay an earthly price? I don't want to deal with either of these scenarios, and I doubt you do either, so make it a point to forgive others. I haven't found any scripture that says you have to be friends with them or continue as if nothing happened, but for your sake, forgive and let it go. However, we must be kind, release bitterness, and hold no grudges.














