Shedding the World
The Things God Hates
Those That Sow Discord Among the Brethren
Being a part of a loving church is one of God’s gifts to those who love him, so when someone tries to cause trouble within it, those people often receive the consequences for their actions. John writes a letter to Gaius, an elder of a church. Here is the relevant scripture:
I wrote unto the church: but Diotrephes, who loveth to have the preeminence among them, receiveth us not. Wherefore, if I come, I will remember his deeds which he doeth, prating against us with malicious words: and not content therewith, neither doth he himself receive the brethren, and forbiddeth them that would, and casteth them out of the church. 3 John 1:9-10
John didn’t hold anything back; he told the truth and now that story of strife within a church is published in every Bible. One time, after telling a story about some trouble within a church I attend, I caught some flack for publishing it on social media; I didn’t use a timestamp and no names were used, and I wasn’t being malicious, but the information was helpful as a tool for what we shouldn’t do to others and how we should act as the church body.
There is a way to tell if you are on the right side of an issue: it’s the way the other people act towards the opposing side. We see this today in the left verse right conflict. My grandson was graduating from kindergarten and the director of the school, who had caused conflict with our church and enticed some of the families in our church to leave with her; she was in charge of his graduation. She had to stay as director to tie up some loose ends before she parted ways. She had invited some of those families to attend to support her; I guess she was afraid of how we would act towards her because she knew that my husband and I would be there to see our grandson graduate. I have never witnessed so many nasty sneers and ugliness towards me and my husband in my entire life. These were people we knew and loved and were supposedly Christ-followers. We had no ill feeling towards them; we just chose not to follow along with their plan to divide the church. I approached the director a couple of times times to tell her that I loved her so she would know that we didn’t have any hard feelings towards her, but instead of receiving me as a sister in Christ, she treated me like I had stolen her candy. She was very nasty towards me. That’s when I knew that we had made the right decision to stay and support our pastor.
John told the story of Diotrephes to warn the church that his actions were evil. These same things happen in churches today and we should learn from them and remember to keep our focus on Jesus so we don’t veer off the path and turn down the path towards evil.
Know this: if you are the divider in the church, you are the one who is in the wrong. If you don’t like what’s going on, state your concerns with the authorities and quietly leave. You don’t deserve a trophy or fan fair for your decision.
Beloved, follow not that which is evil, but that which is good. He that doeth good is of God: but he that doeth evil hath not seen God. 3 John 1:11












