November 9, 2024

We are learning that our behavior plays a crucial role in how others view us. Watching people fall apart when challenged is a sign of a weak character and shows us that they are not someone to follow; instead, they are someone who needs to learn to control their emotions. It’s okay to be disappointed but not to lash out at others for doing their civic duty. In 1 Timothy 3, Paul writes to Timothy to share the characteristics of an overseer and a deacon. I would go a little further and say that everyone should adhere to these characteristics as servants of the Most High God in whatever capacity. We are representatives of Jesus and should exhibit behavior worthy of him. 

A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach; Not given to wine, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre; but patient, not a brawler, not covetous; One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity; 1 Timothy 3:2-4

It also says he should not be prideful and be of good report with the poor. The office of deacon is very similar, but adds that they must be bold in their faith. In light of the current societal issues, it would serve us and others well if we had compassion for those who are not emotionally mature rather than condemning them. We know they need the healing touch of Jesus; he is our ultimate psychiatrist. Also, all the remedies for emotional maturity can be found in God’s Word. That’s why it’s so important to read the scriptures daily.