Until God gives you a specific mission, you have one job: to become so in tune with him that you know him intimately. God’s voice is in a whisper; learn to recognize it and act on his promptings.
Here is a scripture I’ll bet you haven’t heard; this is for those who try to snatch people from the fire only to be met with, “don’t judge me!”
The spiritual person judges all things, but is himself to be judged by no one. 1 Corinthians 2:15
The person who says, “don’t judge me,” is probably doing something they are ashamed of and trying to make you feel like you are going against scripture by trying to help them. They do not have the mind of Christ as you do, that is, if you are spiritual and listen carefully to his voice. If you hear those words, listen to the Holy Spirit, walk away, and let them live with their decisions. One day, they will find out that you were right. You tried, so pray for them and move on.
“For who has understood the mind of the Lord so as to instruct him?” But we have the mind of Christ. 1 Corinthians 2:16
These two verses have so much power; ensure you stay in tune with God, so you wield them carefully.