Do you recognize patterns in your life where you can see the hand of God working? He has a well laid plan for each of us, however most people don’t see it or understand it. Some of our trials may be used by God to set us on His path. Be careful though, the devil will lie to you and get you to think that no possible good could come from this, which will end up being true if you believe those lies. Most don’t see how He could use it because of the pain they are suffering right now. It’s like you're in a tunnel, but you can’t see the light at the end of it. You’re straining hard to see that light because you still have hope, but you forgot to take your sunglasses off. If you're going through something right now, God will send someone to counsel you; it could be a human who’s been through a similar trial, or it may be the Holy Spirit; either way, you’re in good hands. Receive His counsel.
But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you. Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid. John 14:26-27